The Narcissist's Game: How to Beat Him
“Therapists said, ‘Stop giving away your power.’ But I wasn’t giving anything away. He was taking it. And I couldn’t stop him. I couldn’t figure out how to beat him at his own game.
“The BTR.ORG Living Free & Message Workshops were the first time I felt like someone understood perfectly what was going on. AND gave me to tools to move forward toward peace and safety. THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! You saved my life!!!”
“I was stressed every time I saw a text from him.”
For married women, communication is required because they live in the same home.
And even if you’re separated or divorced, if you share children, you’re trapped, experiencing emotional and psychological abuse due to so-called co-parenting. It can feel like you’re haunted by phone calls, texts, and emails.
No matter what your situation, The BTR.ORG Living Free & Message Workshops help victims communicate with abusers in a way that relieves the anxiety and stress.
Real Message Examples
The BTR.ORG Message Workshop is different from any other resource because it showcases their abusive messages with real responses. You’ll be surprised how similar all the abusive messages are and surprised at how easy it is to protect yourself from them.
Respond to Abusive Messages with Confidence
The BTR Message Workshop will give you detailed instructions about what phrases to use and the reasoning behind them.
You’ll have exclusive access to the real life sample messages from FIVE different women – women who used the messages you’ll see to shift the situation in their favor. Use these real life samples as templates for your own responses.
Protect Yourself From Narcissistic Abuse
Abuser’s create chaos and fear on purpose to exploit and distress their victims. Learn how to document their abusive communication and protect yourself.
Women who have taken the BTR.ORG Living Free & Message Workshops report that a new sort of peace has settled into their hearts and minds.
They’re able to focus on daily tasks, be present with their children, and feel peace for the first time in years.
At Betrayal Trauma Recovery, We Get It
Every woman on our team has experienced narcissistic abuse first hand.
We’ve all suffered from Betrayal Trauma due to his lies, infidelity, porn use, manipulation, and gaslighting.
We’ve learned the most effective ways to get to emotional safety, and we’ll walk with you.
Better than Therapy
Writing strategic messages is more EFFECTIVE than therapy because therapy focuses on “fixing” your problems.
But the ONLY problem is your abusive husband (or ex). We’ll give you the tools to LIVE FREE!
We Get It - Immediately
Don’t waste time trying to explain what is happening or educate your therapist, clergy, or custody evaluator about narcissistic abuse.
You need help now! These tools will help you immediately.
If you need support implementing the tools in your messages, attend a BTR Group Session or schedule an Individual Session. BTR Coaches are trained on how to write strategic messages.
Safety and Healing
Women who have a safe network of support get through the fog of lies and manipulation more quickly – saving themselves years of pain and confusion.
Once you enroll, you’ll have access forever. You can watch the videos and read the samples as many times as you need to.
Take it at your own pace.
Because every woman in our community has experienced narcissistic abuse, we all get it. You’ll be validated and loved – not blamed.
Founder & Executive Director
Anne Blythe, M.Ed.
After years of attempting to stop her husband’s pornography use and “anger issues”, Anne turned her attention to establishing emotional and psychological safety for herself and her three children. Through study and practical application, Anne finally delivered herself and her children from his narcissistic abuse 8 years after their divorce.
Since then she wrote The BTR.ORG Living Free and Message Workshop to help deliver other women from the seemingly never-ending oppression of being married or divorce from a narcissistic man. Similarly, she wrote the BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop to help victims manufacture peaceful feels throughout their journey to safety.
Anne shares her journey with others to help women safely and effectively separate themselves from their husband’s (or ex’s) emotional & psychological abuse and sexual coercion and establish peace in their homes and families.