betrayal trauma

A Clear Path to Healing from Betrayal in Marriage

When you discover that your husband has been using pornography (or other types of sexual betrayal), lying, gaslighting, etc, it’s hard to know what to do. Living Free will give you clear action steps to heal from the betrayal in your marriage.


The Problem

Many professionals don’t recognize the emotional & psychological abuse and sexual coercion that come with betrayal in marriage.

They see both parties as equally unhealthy. They can’t see that his lies, manipulation, and blame is abuse.


The Solution

The strategies you’ll learn in The Living Free Workshop aren’t anything like what you’ve heard before. Heal from the betrayal in your marriage for real, with strategies that actually work.

Begin your journey to emotional, psychological, and sexual safety today.

So validating, powerful, and relevant. I NEEDED THIS. Every woman who has been betrayed by her husband needs this. Why isn’t anyone else teaching this stuff? How did I even function before BTR??

I just discovered betrayal in my marriage. Help!

Get to emotional safety with without being blamed or required to love, serve, forgive, or support the husband who betrayed you.

The BTR.ORG Living Free concepts will transform the fear and frustration into action steps toward peace, whether your married, separated, or divorced.

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A One-Of-A-Kind Workbook

With detailed video lessons and an inspired Workbook, The Living Free Workshop is unique in every way.

Protect Your Thoughts From Additional Betrayal, So You Can Heal

Women who’ve been betrayed struggle with being able to focus, feel peace, or even do necessary daily tasks.

The BTR.ORG Living Free Workshop will teach you thought strategies and tools to protect your mind from being hijacked by trauma.

All I know is that I enrolled hoping I’d learn some new skills, like how to set boundaries and communicate with my husband who betrayed me. And I did learn those things – but HOLY COW. I feel like a new person.

I’m excited for the first time in twenty years. Not only excited, but I feel capable and strong. My life starts today.

Learn Why The Betrayal Happened

When you understand why he betrayed you, you can avoid the traps he uses to exploit your trust.

You Couldn't Avoid It, But You Can Heal From Betrayal in Marriage

When healing from betrayal, a lot of people will encourage you to set boundaries. But “boundaries” never seem to work.

The BTR.ORG Boundary Model isn’t the impossible “tell him your boundaries” advice you’ve tried before.

In fact, Living Free will teach you how to protect yourself without saying a thing. 

Learn Strategies to Keep Yourself Safe from Betrayal

A lot of people give vague advice like, “Don’t let him take your power.”

It’s not helpful. The Living Free Workshop includes specific, actionable strategies to really heal from the betrayal and feel peace.

“I enrolled in the BTR.ORG Living Free Workshop because I was at wit’s end with my husband’s infidelity. I had tried everything. I had no idea there was another option that would help me actually feel peace. Thank you, BTR!”

BTR.ORG Living Free Workshop

Thought, Boundary & Communication Strategies that Will Heal You


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Founder & Executive Director

Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

 Anne is the Producer and Host of the The BTR.ORG Podcast and the author of Trauma Mama Husband Drama

After years of attempting to stop her husband’s pornography use and “anger issues”, Anne turned her attention to establishing emotional and psychological safety for herself and her three children. Through study and practical application, Anne finally delivered herself and her children from his narcissistic abuse 8 years after their divorce.

She wrote The BTR.ORG Living Free and Message Workshop as a way to help other women avoid all the traps and pitfalls women experience when they’re betrayed in marriage. Healing from the betrayal and living a peaceful life is possible. 

Anne shares her journey with others to help women safely and effectively separate themselves from their husband’s (or ex’s) emotional & psychological abuse and sexual coercion and establish peace in their homes and families.


Is the BTR.ORG Living Free Workshop right for me?

If you are a woman over the age of 18, who is currently (or has been) in a marriage where you experienced betrayal (in the form of secret pornography use or infidelity), then YES! This workshop is for women who are still married, separated, or divorced. If you want to heal from your husband’s betrayal, the answer is YES! This workshop is for YOU!

How long is it the BTR.ORG Living Free Workshop?

The BTR.ORG Living Free Workshop includes 55 very short video lessons and an associated PDF Workbook.

Once I’ve enrolled, how do I access the Living Free Workshop?

Login to the BTR.ORG Client Login > Workshops > Living Free to access the Workshop.

How long will I have access?

For life!

Can I schedule an Individual Session with Anne?

Anne teaches women about how to heal from betrayal in marriage on all BTR.ORG educational platforms – including the The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast and social media.

If you’d like guidance on how to implement The BTR.ORG Living Free strategies in your own situation, attend a BTR.ORG Group Session. We’d love to see you in a session TODAY!